Tuesday, March 6, 2007

candor

The term i choosen is candor.Candor means frank or open.
The original meaning of the candor was the virtue of
purity or innocence, but that use is now obsolete.
Although being open and unbiased is a positive quality, in
some circumstances it is better to be discreet rather than
candid with some party on a particular topic. Certainly,
there are some matters in which a person is morally
required to keep something confidential, and therefore
being candid with the wrong party about some matter would
be an ethical breach.

does society help create a irresponsible sexuality in iits members

I don't think that society helps to create irresponsible sexuality in it's members. I think that the lack of guidance and lack of morals in society's house holds lead to this irresponsibility. Most of the time, we are simply based on what we have been exposed to at home. We must remember that irresponsible adults were once irresponsible children, quite possibly being raised by irresponsible parents. Irresponsibility is some times a never ending vicious cycle. There have been several campaigns geared towards safe sex, no sex, AIDS and HIV awareness etc. If anything, I would say that society is helping to create knowledge about sexuality and is attempting to prevent some of the carelessness it involves.

Racialtensions and stereo types

A stereotype is a standardized idea of a specific group of people
or objects.Stereotypes are the generalization of characteristics; they reduce
complexity, provide stability and also can offer opportunities to identify
oneself with others.Racism can more narrowly refer to a system of oppression. Several things could be done to alleviate racial tensions and stereotypes
that lead to problems in society. First thing is to teach our children about
loving their fellow man at a young age. When we are born, we don't see a
difference in each other. Hate for another is a learned behavior and if
parents would discontinue the transferance of racism from on generation to
another it will eventually die out. Secondly, we can make an effort. reach
out and learn as much as we can about people that are different from us
instead of making rash criticisms and assumptions about them.

Defence Mechanisam

Defense mechanisms are one way of protect ourselves from awareness of unpleasant thoughts, feelings and desires. When anxiety occurs, the mind first thinks solutions to forget that situation. If this is not, then a range of defense mechanisms may be triggered. In distorting reality, there is a change, which allows for a lessening of anxiety, with a corresponding reduction in felt tension. Most of the students use defence mechanisms : .For example: A student watches TV instead of studying, saying that "additional study wouldn't do any good anyway." Another example: The student who doesn't complete assignment, must use defense mechanism to protect himself. When i was in undergraduate, i went my cousin's marriage along with my family members.Next day of the marriage i had an exam , but i didn't prepare any thing for exam. My lecturer already told that,any body who got less than 80% would be severly punished. Because of that reason i was decided to took the permission from my lecturer using defnce mechanism. At that time,i said to lecturer, i amn suffering from fever so i want the permission for without writing the exam. This is not truth, but protecting my self i use that one. So almost all students, use defense mechanisms to protect themselves.

moraldilemma

A dilemma is a situation in which a choice must be made between the alternative actions. Moral dilemma is a situation that often involves in conflict between moral imperatives, in which to obey one would result in transgressing another. For example:When i was in 10th Grade,I went to Bank along with my father. My fatheris not studied , so i went along with my father to Bank and someother places every time. Actually we darwed the Rs5000 from bank,but the person who is in the cash counter gave RS5500 by mistake. At that time i was in dilemma whether it is returned to his or not. I thought some time and i returned back to him, Because if i didn't returned, then he has to paid that money to bank form his own money. He appreciated me a lot. My father doesn't understand, what is going there. After that i told all the matter,he also appreciated me.

violence

Parents are the best teachers for their childrens. Parents have an patience and ability to tell each and every thing to their childrens with in the friendly environment, then childrens are not scared to asking about any thing. The children, between thae age of 8 to 12, want their parents to talk with them about today's toughest issues like violence, drugs and alcohol etc. In this complex world,kids are very interested to show the cartoon networks in the TV,and playing games in the computer,etc. The characters in that show and games are always hit with each other. If we do like that in the real life, then someone who get the short will be seriously hurt; sometimes they even die. So we have to talk with children about violence in TV seriously. And recognise that talking about violence is different from boys and girls. We have to tke extreme care while talking about the violence with the boys, because boys may feel ashamed to express their feelings about violence.

Tuesday, February 27, 2007

direct encounters had with the nature



In the Southern Part of India Every year from october to december rains are came.That season is called a Mansoon Season. Last year Mansoon rains were came more,compared to before Years. I wrote the GRE on october,For preparing the Gre i need the computer for took some MocTests,before writing the actual exam. I asked my friend,please gave me your laptop for one month. She Agreed and told that came and took Laptop. At that time i was in Nellore Districtand My friend is in Guntur District. One Day i decided to go Guntur by Train for took the system. Actually,the time taken for going from Nellore to Guntur is six hours but i took thirty hours to go from Nellore to Guntur. Because of the heavy mansoon rains and Storm all trains are stopped and i stucked in the train. At that time i travelled single,i scared a lot. At last i reached safely to my friend's place and took the system . This is most unforgettable situation in my life.